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Motivational Tips

A reader asked me to write about motivational tips. Things to keep us going when, let’s face it, the world is pretty gloomy right now. Why bother writing when the publishing world is struggling so badly due to the economy and piracy?

Why?

What else are you going to do? Do you want to quit, never to realize your dream? Or do you want to write (or sing or paint or whatever) for the sheer enjoyment of it? Because it makes YOU happy? And if you’re happy, it carries forward into the other things you do.

I’m not a sit-back-and-wait kind of person. In fact, this more than anything shows my impatience to move forward, I think. One day I’m going to get to THE END of my journey but the time between now and then won’t be spent mourning things beyond my control but working toward achieving dreams, goals etc. I know a person with no goals. Literally, NO goals. She exists day to day, fretting over this and that and stuck in the same place she’s been for the last thirty years. Do you know people like that? Do you want to be them?

No. No one does.

To borrow a phrase from Nike, JUST DO IT. Whatever it is, just DO it. And when the going gets tough, and it will, keep plugging on because it makes you happy, because it means something to someone else. Not everyone fits into a box. Writers know this especially well. We view things differently than other people, always thinking, analyzing, looking for story angles, emotions, the core of why whatever it happens to be matters.

Why do I write?

Because I know life can be tough, it can be painful, it can shatter us when we least expect it. But I also know we have choices to make. When our hearts are broken, we either pick ourselves up and move on, or we allow a bad thing, or a series of bad things, to break us. Those emotions:: love, sorrow, joy, fear? I loooove writing about them because we can all identify with them.

I’m not sure this is what my reader had in mind when she posed the question to me but… there you go. My motivational tip for the day is to keep moving forward. By kindness, by the scrape of your fingernails. Always with prayer.

Still need something to motivate you? Imagine, just for a moment for those of you who don’t believe, standing before God at the end of your life and saying, “I did nothing.”

That’s motivation enough for me to nurture my talent. I can’t sing, I can’t dance, I don’t have an ear for second languages and my patience is sorely lacking at times. But I can write and I care about what I write, my characters, the problems they face. I like sitting down and getting those emotions on the page. (Heh. When the writing is going well! Talk to me on a day when the words aren’t there and see me frustrated! LOL)

What’s YOUR talent? Your gift in life? You have one (or more). Never think for a single moment that you don’t. Are you going to share it with the world today? Why not?

Kay

5 Responses to “Motivational Tips”

  1. Leni Says:

    Great post. It sure woke me up to step up my game.

  2. Kathleen Says:

    I am motivated to take it one day at a time… or at least I try!!!

  3. Kay Stockham Says:

    Leni, glad it helped.

    Kathleen, I need to focus more on that and live in the moment, have more fun, than always wanting to plan. There’s another for me. Wink

    Kay

  4. Marcie Says:

    The only person who can make me happy is me.
    I write because I’m crabby if I don’t. Do I want to be published – yes. If it doesn’t happen will I be okay – sure.
    All I know is this must be what I’m supposed to be doing with my life. If it wasn’t I’m sure GOD would have shined a spotlight on a different path for me.
    So can it be hard to move forward without knowing what’s on the other side? Yep. But then I think of people who live their dreams and I tell myself if they can do it – why can’t I?

  5. jody Says:

    Amen sistah! Keep on writing or the voices drive you crazy, lol. It reminds me of the movie “Meet the Robinsons”, i’ve watched it a few times with my son. We love it, the family in the movie has a motto, Keep moving forward. In the movie when one of the characters fails they celebrate his failure, because failure will eventually turn to success.
    Actually i think that was walt disney’s motto, as well as Christpher Reeves too.
    Just do it, and keep moving forward!
    keep writing girl
    jody

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